Living in torment is bad.
but what’s almost worse is when someone is counting all the times you’ve done something wrong.
Keeping count is an awful way to have a relationship. It comes to a point where it’s not even a relationship. It’s a “tolerance”. Why even have that relationship if all it is is a “tolerance”? There’s a certain trouble concerning this in today’s world; the world has adjusted to being too touchy in all topics.
How does this relate back to what I’m talking about?
Because when you have a disagreement or someone is “keeping score” in a relationship, it has become hard to just approach the other and lay it all out, BECAUSE THE PERSON MIGHT BE TOUCHY ABOUT IT! It isn’t just the fact that some people are that way, it's the problem that because many people nowadays are that way, there is no way to tell when someone will take something you say with the wrong perspective. And if they do, you’re out of luck; you can’t take things back in a social sense…it’s just not how life works. So in the end, you’re almost “restricted” from talking things out with your neighbor because of this barrier we’ve created. It is very unfortunate.